A Long Slow Run

Whatever age they might be, most people have got to a point in their life when they have to take a big decision, which will probably affect their entire existence. There is no doubt that there are certain moments in life when you may feel helpless, confused and believe you could use a helping hand in order to figure out how to proceed with your life.

Those particular moments are the very moments when it is wise not to rely on anybody Else's advice. There are two reasons for this:

1. They may think they know you, and you may think they know you. Nobody, however, can know your true feelings and desires inside well enough to make life changing decisions for you. Such advice would be colored by their own personality, desires, and experience. When you are deciding about your future, you are the one who must consider and then decide.

2. If they do give advice to you, even with the best intentions, and you rely on that advice, if anything goes wrong you’re always likely to blame them. That is why specialists strongly advise you, every time you find yourself at a crossroads, to always take the decisions by yourself. Obviously, the question arising is: how can we know how to take a decision, and which is the best solution?

The answer is never going to be simple for some of us. However, there is a technique that can be of great help, and employed regularly will have great results: it is called meditation and it has been used for centuries in certain rituals and by ancients civilizations. Even in old and famous books, like the Bible, for example, we are invited to meditate, to discover and fight the evil in us and by knowledge to gain control over our decisions and our lives.
If u are deciding against something that can pose as a threat to you, never decide in favor of somebody else..........