The Round Rectangle..........

Dignity is defined as 1.formal or serious conduct or manner 2. worthiness 3. high rank, title, etc. So i ask, does sex play any role in the definition of dignity? Most religious persons will answer yes to that question though i beg to differ with that view. A few months ago i met a guy and we started talking and knowing each other and somewhere along the line he popped the question 'how many guys have you had sex with?' The honest answer is 'i don't know' simply because i don't count. We know the number is more than one because the guy who got me pregnant n the guy who broke my virginity are two different persons, but beyond that, keeping record is a total waste of memory space in my head. One time i was under so much pressure at work and stress was creeping in so i went to the bar for a drink to clear my head. Next to me sat a woman who was flashing down shots soo angrily that i got interested n asked her whats up, she told me she had come on a date with a

  Jack was the all time player, (those who have watched 'two n a half men' would know Charlie Harper..) well jack was worse than Charlie in all possible ways. Jack had this click of friends whom they would hang out with every other weekend and the routine was drink, pick up girls, drop them following day and keep up the game. He and his friends had enough money to feed all the hungry girls in the clubs so that wasn't their problem. 5 years ago Jack and his friends as usual went to their famous spot (the spot) as it was commonly known and the drinks started coming soon after and so did the girls. Before long their table was decorated by beer and girls and things were going on well till a fight broke out and things got really ugly, jack was on the floor beaten up and 'his girl' had taken off.  So a hooker (or so he thought that's what she was) came along:- Hooker: Hey whatchu doing on the goddamn floor? Jack: Cant u see am beaten up? Hooker: Can see that,

So the issue of sex before marriage croped up somewhere as i was talking with a few friends, and wow, the discussion was heated. So i asked, who decides what is right or wrong in matters pertaining to coitus? My christian friends said the Bible has specific guidelines on the same, while the atheists said it was mere ethics. Like i indicated before, am a believer in the Holy Book (Bible) and it has several verses that condemn adultery and sexual immorality. So what happens when am with someone i have sexual feelings for and we are not married? I do not mean to question God but if He really never intended for us humans to have sex before marriage, am of the thought that He would have ensured women remained unattractive up until the right age set for marriage. He would also have ensured that we do not develop sexually until the right age for marriage came. Then another issue crops up, during the Bible times men went right ahead and got married whenever the sexually urges